Love, is a complicated game... Neither of us know that syllabus, neither of us know what is the next challenge... However, Love is pure.... It is a knowledge that we are compulsory to gain.... But some of us, just run away from it...
When we engaged ourselves in love... We need to have full preparation that it is not as wonderful as we think and it is not as in novels and fairy tales that the main characters will live happy ever after... In the process, we fall... And we need to learn how to stand up again... In the process, we got heartbreak, but we need to know that it is not all...
Love is about forgiveness between each other... Love is about the happiness that both individuals share among each other... Love is about the companion of the each other, holding each other's hand going through all the difficulties and sadness... Love is about communiction... Love is about the pain and growing up during the process... Love is about the bitter and sweet... Love is about sharing, not only the sweet and happiness but also the bitter and sadness...
However, things are not that simple when you really engage yourself in love, not yet a realationship... But LOVE... It will turned out to be a really complicated thing and you will lose control of it... somehow... Those who have been into love knows that it does not always end up in happy ending.... But ask youself, what is the real matter to you? Do you want happiness only, or do you want to share, to lighten each other's burden and to be tolerance? there are many question relating on this topic since old days...
Some people can run away for love... Some people can sacrifice for love,(e.g: romeo and Juliet... Which I think is way too over...) Some people can fight for love... Some people can be quiet for love... Some people can betray for love... Some people can do anything for love.... from this point of view, no one can deny that Love, is actually a powerful weapon...
But things never goes as you want in love... At down times, people would say... Let's just cool it off or let's just end it... But if LET GO and COOL IT OFF is that easy to say it to the other half... Well, you can just leave... Appreciate the love you had now in your life... Every people gives you different opinion and different things to learn... However, at times.... Letting go is just a way to love someone... It is sad to say that you need to let go of someone you love so much but if things just cannot go on... Or rather say, the other is feeling too hard to go on, at times we need to let go although we love him/her so much...
Love does not depend only on one side... It is a bilateral thing... If the other were to give up and you cannot do anything to help.... If the other were to give up and pleading for you to let go... Just let go... It may be hurt, it may be heartbreaking but sometimes it is a good way to make him/her happy... For me, I rather getting myself hurt rather than seeing him getting hurt...
Had in mind that LOVE is not about sacrificing, LOVE is about each other...
How each other feel, How each other trying hard to safe their love, How each other sacrificing a lot just to be together, How each other share their thoughts and feelings...
LOVE is something that cannot go on without trust... If you rather trust someone else than the one you loved, then love someone else instead...
Bare in mind that love is not all about happiness, and LOVE does not always lead to happy ending... But we can still live happily ever after if we make a change to ourselves by trusting the ones we love...
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