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Friday, March 2, 2012

相携:亲情、友情与爱情



曾经有一个母亲告诉我:“小孩啊!从来就不听父母说的。小的时候,开口就是爷爷奶奶说的;上了学,开口就是老师说的;到了叛逆期,什么都是朋友说的;到了大学,什么都是女朋友/南朋友说的;结了婚,什么都是老公/老婆说的……你说,父母说的,他们什么时候上心呢?”


在人生不同的道路上,我们会遇上不同的人、事、物。我们经历了许多起起落落、经历了快乐和不快乐……不同阶层的人不断的闯进我们的人生也随着时光的流逝离开我们的人生旅途……我们总是在乎着那一些短暂停留在我们人生的人而忽略了那些陪伴我们走完这一生的人……


爱情,这是大多年轻人所执着的。当我们开始了一段新的恋情,我们就会奋不顾身的去闯……想要掠夺对方的心,想要对方心里只有自己一个人。到了热恋期,两个人总像牛皮糖一样离不开对方,甜蜜十足……渐渐的,到了冷却期两人都会陷入痛苦里。我们可曾想过,曾经一起立下过一辈子的人如今痛苦的过活着……眼泪,盖过了以往的欢笑……拥抱着对方,并没有甜蜜却只有平静的心跳……之后对方就会离开彼此的生命……这来来去去的要过多少次,才会找到属于自己的另一方?


友情……这已是一个不会持久的感情。不管是谁,曾经一起有过美好的回忆、曾经一块儿奋斗过的汗水……曾经安慰过你的朋友,往往会在一瞬间……就那么一瞬间称为劲敌……当我们回想起,我们一起奋斗的日子时候还会存有一丝想念?


唯一不会离开我们的是亲情。但是亲情往往就是我们忽略的感情路线。大家基本上就是忘了这一段情的存在。当我们想起的时候,就代表着我们遭遇了困难……亲情对我们而言往往只是一个避风港,但是我们却忘了永远陪在我们身边,陪我们走过起起落落的正是亲情……


在我们这个年龄,我们总会把爱情和友情看得非常重要……但是回头望,在我们背后支持着我们让我们有勇气走下去的却是那切不断的亲情……在这三者之间,也许我们真的应该相携……达到最佳的平衡点……、

Saturday, February 18, 2012

A Precious Gift from A Precious Friend

Those memory in KDU College is getting blurrer and blurrer as each day passed by. Until today, I've reached KL for 2 months. Fast huh? Lectures started, part-time job started too... Everything went on quite well if I don't talk. Why? As I talked, everything just mess up and turn upside down.

There if this friend, Prince S I'll call him... We were classmates last year when we are in college. Although we had been classmates for a whole year, we neither went into a serious talk nor a casual talk before. Recently, we started talking on Facebook and I sort of understand him a bit more.

He misunderstood my communication way towards him, thinking it was finding a fight. He thought we went into quarrel. Actually I did not, maybe my tone tend to be more strict when I talk to him and that's why I guess. I have my own way in expressing myself towards people in different way. Its just his, so coincidently is my stricter side.

That day, he came to KL for college hunt. I felt so sorry because I was not able to meet him up and he came all the way here from Butterworth. It had been a really long trip for him. I was working full day that particular day. So I texted him saying that I was so sorry. My friend went and I bet they had a great time.

After work, I checked my inbox and I saw his message:

".....I bought a small present for you. Hope you like it..."

Seriously at that point of time, I felt really warm. To me, friendship is not something which I can trust anymore. But these recent talk we had on Facebook really changed my mind towards him. I know that he had always been lack of confidence in making decision and he felt that sad things always happen on him. When I saw this present... I was touched.

I did not forget him, neither did I hate him. I always wanted him to come to KL... In fact, I just missed those days as classmates. When everyone ditch me, only a few of them stayed by my side and undeniably he was one of them.

To Prince S,
You are one of my Precious friend and thank you so much for you precious gift.
Be confidence in yourself and one day you will find the one that you love and whom will loves you back.
Thank you for all this while. May you be happy in the coming days.
Be strong and have beliefs in yourself.
WHen you are down, just message me on Facebook or my HP,
I may not be able to get to you immediatly but I'll be there for you as soon as possible.

NoNameTraveller

Monday, January 23, 2012

Chinese New Year Eve

The sound of the fireworks are exploding outside my window since 00.00 just now.... It is, as for most people favor especially the Chinese... The Chinese New Year... People are putting fire crackers fr almost 40 minutes now... Its way past midnight people and I'm seriously not in a good mood.

Anyway, happy new year PEeps... My new year wish is to stay healthy for the year and may my friends and family stay healthy too...

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

寻找




不知不觉,我踏上这一个一个人的旅程已经一个星期有多了……为什么说是一个人?为什么又总是感触良多?虽然有一位朋友一直都陪伴我,但是心里仍然感觉像是一个人似的……




这里不像槟城,小小的一个岛上,想到哪里就到哪里。这里是吉隆坡,是一个大城市。这里比起槟城,离开家的距离也远了许多。是我不够独立、不够坚强吗?我自己也不知道。来到这里的一个星期里,我总是会回想起在槟城的点点滴滴。比起去年,我长大了一岁也就是说是时候我学会了靠自己完成一些事情。当我们被逼面对着一些我们不想要面对的事情时,我们只好认了并且不再逃避的面对他。




一个星期了,每一天这样30分钟的来回旅途让我想了很多很多。那一段30分钟的旅途就是让我冥想的时间,静静的冥想我以后想要走的路。我总是会在人群里找寻以前在槟城的朋友的身影,总是想要在那一段寂寞空虚的30分钟里找到一些些快乐的回忆……




人家常说,我们不应该留恋于过去……应该往前走。但是偶尔想想过去,总是会让人怀念。他们过得如何了?好吗?他们是否还记得我们曾经一起创造那一片又一片无数快乐的回忆?又是否记得他们曾经给大家带来的伤害?




也许在这个大城市里,只要我不放弃的寻找……终有一日会找回那一些我遗失的、眷恋的回忆……或许只要我不放弃寻找,就会觅获那一份我一直以来想要的幸福和快乐……

Monday, January 16, 2012

你,不再一个人……

乘坐着那一列轻快铁……
那一段30分钟的归途……
那一个和我一起上下课的朋友……
往往我会有很多感触……

不知不觉之间,我踏上了这一片土地……
这一片不属于我的天空里……
在这一个繁忙的城市里,我总是会想起以前的日子……

站在窗边,我望着那一片蔚蓝的天空……
阳光明媚的照耀着这一片大地……
闹哄哄的城市在那一道阳光的照耀下显得更加火热了……

今天我看见了facebook上的一个留言,
才发现我的举止伤害了一位朋友……
很深,很深……

其实我并不是有心,
大概是不曾站在他的角度去想整件事情,
所以无意之间伤害了他……

其实,他是个很好的人,
他不计较、不八卦……
但是这样的他很寂寞……
他曾经写过小说,文笔还真的不错……

想借此对他说:“对不起,伊文。”
要记住,几个月前你认识了我和几位朋友……
虽然我有时候说话真的是毒了一点,
但是我并不是有心想要伤害你。

想对你说:“你,不再是一个人……”

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

模糊了的回忆



今天一时兴起,我在茶桌底下翻出了一本又一本厚厚的相簿。人家说,照片是为了留住那一刻、那一霎那的美好。这一本本的相簿,我已经好久好久没有看了……甚至脑海里仿佛忘了有着一些照片的存在……

人,不就是这样吗?当我们越来越大了,回忆也模糊了……我摇了头,拿起那一本相簿。

“呼!”大力的吹了一口气,相簿上的灰尘被我吹了起来。翻开了相簿,我看见了我小时候的照片。

我看见了和一位青梅竹马拍的照片。我们算起来,也做了18年的邻居。还记得小时候,我们还一块去补习……在路途中,我们就把车子想象成过山车……曾经,我们一起欢笑;曾经,我们一起哭泣;曾经,我们一起上学、放学;曾经,我们牵着小手走在屋前的小路上;曾经,我们有多少的快乐,多少的天真……可是,不知从何时开始,我俩渐渐不再说话了。如今见个面也很尴尬呢!也许,这就是时间作弄人吧!当我们渐渐长大了,那曾经谈过的“梦”;曾经一起赤着脚丫、追着纸飞机奔跑的日子没了……

我看见照片上在小学和我十分要好的朋友。如今我们在学院经常碰面,却从来不曾说过一句话,打过一声招呼。是不是大家都长大了,都认为彼此变了?所以变得陌生了?我看见了那些和我一起同班了5年的同学,如今我们见面就打个招呼。如此而已。

学院里,我叫了一班朋友。他们是否会和我的同学一样,以后各奔前程了是否还会记得大家?我们彼此之间的回忆,会随着时间渐渐模糊。为什么?我们背负着自己的义务,我们过着忙碌的生活。那一些回忆会随着时间,和照片一样渐渐泛黄……渐渐模糊……

是遗憾吗?明明大家都认识,却变成了陌生人……

朋友,陌生人……那个导火线……只因时间模糊了脑海里的回忆……

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Penjajahan British di Pulau Pinang oleh Francis Light



My friend made this video for their assignment...
It is about how Francis Light conquered Penang Island...
Helpful for PMR and SPM Sejarah too...
For those who have problem with how Francis Light came to Penang, can take a look at this video... ^^
Hope you like it...